{"id":1743,"date":"2023-10-05T15:02:12","date_gmt":"2023-10-05T19:02:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/too-young-for-me-a-senior-center-watches-the-golden-bachelor\/05\/10\/2023\/"},"modified":"2023-10-05T15:02:12","modified_gmt":"2023-10-05T19:02:12","slug":"too-young-for-me-a-senior-center-watches-the-golden-bachelor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/too-young-for-me-a-senior-center-watches-the-golden-bachelor\/05\/10\/2023\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Too Young for Me!\u2019: A Senior Center Watches \u2018The Golden Bachelor\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">After Zumba class wrapped up at the Oakland Senior Center on Friday, regulars gathered around a projector screen with mocktails and plates piled with cheese and crackers to watch the premiere of \u201cThe Golden Bachelor,\u201d the reality franchise\u2019s latest spin on its dating show formula.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI haven\u2019t been a bachelor in 55 and a half years,\u201d said John Nicolaysen, 88, one of the two dozen viewers gathered in this leafy New Jersey suburb. He wore his age proudly on a baseball cap: \u201cEst. 1935.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The new show features daters in their 60s and 70s, centering on a mild-mannered 72-year-old man from Indiana named Gerry Turner, who is looking for love again after his wife died several years ago. Eager to generate buzz around the spinoff, ABC has helped to facilitate watch parties at retirement homes around the country, targeting a television audience \u2014 people over 60 \u2014 that has effectively <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/09\/23\/business\/media\/tv-networks-streaming-boomers.html\" title=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">become the core constituency for broadcast networks<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">This watch party, however, was homegrown.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">As the center\u2019s director, Arielle Preciado, arranged chairs for the incoming audience, she recalled the disapproval of some regulars when she screened a movie about 20-somethings falling in love. \u201cEverybody was like, \u2018No one wants to watch our grandchildren getting together!\u2019\u201d Preciado said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">So when chatter about \u201cThe Golden Bachelor\u201d reached her social media feeds, Preciado decided to organize a viewing in Oakland, where members of the Greatest Generation flocked to after World War II. The senior center now sees a few hundred visitors a week, offering exercise classes and free activities such as Mahjong and knitting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">After attending the morning Zumba class on Friday, three girlfriends who met at the senior center more than a decade ago returned to the building for the 2 p.m. \u201cGolden Bachelor\u201d screening. (The premiere aired on ABC the previous night.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Their take on Turner, whose bronzed image has been plastered across billboards, buses and commercial breaks for weeks?<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cHe\u2019s too young for me!\u201d Joanne Craw, 78, said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cWell, he\u2019s right up my alley,\u201d her friend Toni Pflugh, 68, replied. \u201cExcept I have a husband.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI do, too,\u201d their friend Chris Lill, 73, said, joking, \u201cbut we\u2019re ready for a change after 50 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Pflugh, once a devoted \u201cBachelor\u201d viewer who fell out of the habit after getting tired of what she considered a lack of realism, hoped that this version would be different.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">As a beaming Turner greeted a cast of hopefuls in the premiere episode, the senior center crowd tittered at attention-getting strategies like riding up to the Bachelor Mansion on a motorcycle, groaning at the franchise\u2019s wink-wink, nudge-nudge innuendo.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The group of friends offered guesses on which women had \u201chad work done,\u201d while others simply watched silently. The room broke into gasps and cheers when one of the contestants shared that she was from Teaneck, N.J., a short drive down the highway.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cShe\u2019s only 60, she\u2019s a baby!\u201d Pflugh called out as one contestant stepped out of a limo in a shimmering golden gown.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI need alcohol,\u201d cut in Craw as she ventured out to the snack table.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">(She was joking: The senior center does not serve alcohol, so the best Craw could do was an \u201cOrchard Spritzer,\u201d a mixture of pear juice and sparkling white grape juice.)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">As the episode concluded with a preview of a season of flirtation, heartbreak and a heavy dose of messaging around aging and female empowerment, the reviews trickled in.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cNot my cup of tea,\u201d Nicolaysen said, though he found seeing Turner putting on hearing aids while getting ready relatable. He was certain his wife would ask him to turn it off at home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI think reality TV is the downfall of civilization,\u201d offered Vicki Wyan, 69, as her group of friends debated how \u201creal\u201d this reality show actually is.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Linda Arns, 78, was far more charmed. \u201cI just fell in love with his laugh \u2014 and his blue eyes,\u201d she said of Turner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">It was an innocent crush: Arns has been with her husband for more than 50 years. But she offered Turner some advice in case he decided to be married again: \u201cLove is blind, but marriage is an eye-opener,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">ABC\u2019s efforts to capture audiences are off to a decent start, with 4.4 million viewers watching the show the day it premiered, according to data from Nielsen.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Not all of the singles at Oakland Senior Center bought its message, though. Sure, a \u201csecond chance at love\u201d is good for some people, but what if their era of dating is simply over?<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI couldn\u2019t do it again; I had the best, so I really couldn\u2019t do it again,\u201d said Ann Bernhard, 84, who has been visiting the senior center since shortly after her husband died more than 20 years ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Another widow, Marilu Irizarry, 78, was also thoroughly uninterested in joining the population of older single women searching for love \u2014 either on television or in real life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cI don\u2019t know,\u201d she said, looking around at the other women sitting at her table. \u201cMaybe just a good friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-798hid etfikam0\">John Koblin<!-- --> contributed reporting.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/10\/05\/arts\/television\/golden-bachelor-senior-center-watch-party.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After Zumba class wrapped up at the Oakland Senior Center on Friday, regulars gathered around a projector screen with mocktails and plates<br \/><button class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/too-young-for-me-a-senior-center-watches-the-golden-bachelor\/05\/10\/2023\/\">Read More &rsaquo;<\/a><\/button><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12503,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1743"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1743"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1743\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1743"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1743"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1743"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}