{"id":29909,"date":"2024-05-23T11:46:47","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T15:46:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/at-danceafrica-the-enduring-power-of-love\/23\/05\/2024\/"},"modified":"2024-05-23T11:46:47","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T15:46:47","slug":"at-danceafrica-the-enduring-power-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/at-danceafrica-the-enduring-power-of-love\/23\/05\/2024\/","title":{"rendered":"At DanceAfrica, the Enduring Power of Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Not every love story has a third character, but in the case of <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/levyarchive.bam.org\/Detail\/objects\/107431\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">N\u2019Goma and Normadien Woolbright,<\/a> there was one, and he was a force of nature: Chuck Davis, who brought African dance traditions to the United States and founded the DanceAfrica festival. It was his idea that the couple \u2014 his friends and colleagues \u2014 would marry on the stage of the Brooklyn Academy of Music at the annual festival in 1983.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">\u201cLife is love,\u201d Davis says in a video shot at the wedding, crossing his arms across his chest before reaching them broadly to either side. \u201cLove is all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The wedding was a lavish occasion, but it was more than a theatrical staging of a ritual. DanceAfrica, the vibrant festival now in its 47th year, is as much about building and honoring a community as it is about showcasing artistic forms. Personal moments like the Woolbrights\u2019 marriage ceremony are part of its texture.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Davis brought the couple \u2014 N\u2019Goma, 80, is a drummer and Normadien, 71, a dancer \u2014 together by bringing them into his world. They have been involved with the festival since its inaugural presentation, first as performers and now as fixtures behind the scenes. At DanceAfrica, N\u2019Goma is a stage manager; Normadien is assistant stage manager.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">N\u2019Goma first met Davis while working for the New York Transit Authority. Davis\u2019s musical director worked there too, N\u2019Goma said, and he \u201cwanted me to come down to a dance class with him because I told him I played the drums. I went down to play and Chuck said, \u2018Welcome aboard.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Up till then, N\u2019Goma imagined his life would be \u201cworking a regular 9 to 5,\u201d he said \u201cThat was my life \u2014 what I projected for my life anyway. But I found the dancing so interesting that I changed course. I still was working, but I just started doing more with Chuck. My whole life changed.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">That was before N\u2019Goma met Normadien, who first encountered Davis when she was in high school and he set a dance on students. She went on to join his company; when her dancing career was over, she transitioned to stage manager. They left the city in 1988, moving first to North Carolina and then to Florida. Each year, they travel to New York for the festival, which Davis directed until 2015. (<a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2017\/05\/15\/arts\/dance\/chuck-davis-dead.html\" title=\"\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">He died in 2017<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">DanceAfrica\u2019s current artistic director, the choreographer and dancer Abdel R. Salaam, spoke about the wedding in a video program shot with the couple during the pandemic. \u201cThis was not just N\u2019Goma and Normadien getting married,\u201d he said, adding, \u201cthis was <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">our<\/em> wedding. It was our marriage. It was our community renewing our love and our spirit and our vows to the culture.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">The couple will work their backstage magic again at this year\u2019s festival, <a class=\"css-yywogo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bam.org\/danceafrica24\" title=\"\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">tomorrow through Monday<\/a>, which focuses on Cameroon. (Siren \u2014 Protectors of the Rainforest, a Brooklyn company led by the Cameroonian-born Mafor Mambo Tse, will perform in place of Cie La Calebasse, a Cameroonian dance company that had to cancel because of visa issues.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Recently the Woolbrights spoke in a video interview about their deep connection with Davis \u2014 they are the executors of his estate \u2014 their bumpy start as a couple, why, when in relationships, you must let a person be who they are and how their wedding happened in the first place. Did they have a choice? Not when Davis was asking.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">What follows are edited excerpts from our conversation.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">How did you become a couple?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma<\/strong> Chuck taught classes at Lehman College, and I would go up there and play drums for his class. I saw her in one of the classes. I said, Wow. She was really long and elegant, you know? She wasn\u2019t interested in me. But when she got into [Davis\u2019s] company, and we were in the company together she had no choice but to be around me as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>He worked long and<em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\"> hard<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>That was <strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">\u2019<\/strong>72 and then it didn\u2019t work until \u201977 when we got together. That\u2019s a long, long time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">How did you end up getting married onstage at B.A.M.?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>Once we started going out, seeing each other, Chuck said, \u201cI want to do an African wedding.\u201d He said it just like I\u2019m telling you now. \u201cI want to do an African wedding, and you and Normadien will get married.\u201d She was in Lake Tahoe. She didn\u2019t even know anything about it. You don\u2019t tell Chuck Davis, \u201cI\u2019m not doing it.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Did you <\/strong><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">want<\/em><\/strong><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\"> to get married?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>Eventually. But the thing was, my head was about dance. You know, we were together, but there were other things that I wanted to do, and that was the blessing that N\u2019Goma never said to me, \u201c<em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Norma<\/em>.\u201d I went on tour for almost three months and he\u2019s like, This is what you do. And that was rare because most people wouldn\u2019t understand something like that. He would take me to the airport.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>You were attracted to [a person] because of the way they were. That\u2019s why a lot of people get separated! It\u2019s not the same person you met.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">So back to the wedding: Normadien, how did you find out?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien<\/strong> I was on the road on tour, and when I came home, my girlfriend said: \u201cI\u2019m upset with you. I heard you\u2019re getting married.\u201d I said, \u201cI <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">am<\/em>?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Oh my God.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>That\u2019s what I said. It took me a while and I said, \u201cWell, Chuck, how did you know?\u201d And he said, \u201cI just knew.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>You had your dance life and I was doing my thing, and when the time came, we would be ready. But Chuck made the time. He <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">accelerated<\/em> the time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">What do you think Chuck was thinking? Did your marriage represent something bigger or something more?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>He had traveled to West Africa so many times and he saw so many different ceremonies. I don\u2019t think that he was so enamored with us getting married. He just wanted to make a big production.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>Chuck was always about family and friends, and we were just so close. It was a closeness that not many people knew about. He would always say, \u201cYou are my right and my left\u201d and for me, he was my brother.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">You started stage managing in the early 1980s. How did you transition from dancing?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>I injured my knee. If I can\u2019t give 100 percent, then I know it\u2019s time. I was always helping Chuck with whatever. I was like, I need to take a step and I want to stay around this, and this is one way of me staying involved.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">And I always said being on the other side of the curtain, being that dancer, how would I want someone to help me?<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">You were so close to Chuck Davis. What was it like when he was dying?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">Normadien <\/strong>It was quiet.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\"><strong class=\"css-8qgvsz ebyp5n10\">N\u2019Goma <\/strong>Before he passed away, though, he was in the bed and he said: \u201cI want my feet on the ground. Sit me up so I can get my feet on the ground.\u201d That was so profound to me. I said, \u201cYou\u2019ve danced all your life, all you know is your feet moving on the ground.\u201d I said, oh my <em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">goodness<\/em>, this guy\u2019s going out thinking about dance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/05\/23\/arts\/dance\/danceafrica-woolbright.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not every love story has a third character, but in the case of N&rsquo;Goma and Normadien Woolbright, there was one, and he<br \/><button class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/entertainment\/at-danceafrica-the-enduring-power-of-love\/23\/05\/2024\/\">Read More &rsaquo;<\/a><\/button><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":29911,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29909"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29909"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29909\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29911"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29909"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29909"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newssprinters.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29909"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}